I'm going to go ahead and use this blog as a staging environment for material on pick-up and relationships. It's a constant work-in-progress; ideas here may be constantly revised. The best way to read this is likely to be bottom-up; start from this post and continue reading to more recent posts.
Yesterday evening, I worked on an introduction for some of this material. I'll post that here as an introduction to the ideas behind what one may come to find in this blog.
I don't claim to have everything figured out. I will never do this; it is counterproductive to both myself and to others who are reading this material: False impressions in any relationship, be it face-to-face, via online communication, or otherwise tend to ruin many things. Above all of these thingsis trust, which will play a very important topic in this essay material. By keeping this simple fact in my mind, I can assure myself (and, consequently, you can be assured) that anything in here is based on experience and that I'm not attempting to raise myself to any level above which I am. That said, I would also recommend that people take all this (and any other) material with a grain of salt. I'm not proposing that anything written here is 100% true, nor that it will work for everybody. Look out for those who claim to have it all figured out -- nobody does.
I began this work with the idea in mind that it would be useful to myself as well as to you, the reader. By expressing ideas in written form, I have the opportunity to refine and perhaps more clearly state abstract ideas (such as relationships) that would be more difficult to emphasize in a spot-on conversation. Many, including myself, have had relationships that have gone poorly. Few learn from these experiences, but those who do are changed for the better and are able to apply their newfound experience to the future.
Many people pose the question, ``How do I meet and attract a girl?'' While there is plenty of material on this subject, I will attempt to address this in some detail in this blog. Surprisingly many people, however, extend this question to, ``How do I meet, attract, and maintain a stable relationship with a girl?'' It is this question that this material will attempt to answer.
My reference for this material comes from myriad places. I have read wealths of material on the subject of maintaining relationships, and the psychology of social dynamics (from meeting people to maintaining relationships) is an area of exquisite interest for me. My experience with relationships may be somewhat lacking compared to others of greater age. That said, I do have several wonderful relationships behind me, from which I have learned much about myself, and about relationships. Reference for material regarding to meeting and attracting women in the first place comes from countless material I've read and many, many hours of actual so-called ``field work,'' which is an ongoing hobby of mine.
All this said, this material is not meant to cater to all people. Essentially every individual is in a different place in their life. Various points mentioned here will feel applicable to some and not to others.
I hope that this will be interesting and useful to people.
Yesterday evening, I worked on an introduction for some of this material. I'll post that here as an introduction to the ideas behind what one may come to find in this blog.
I don't claim to have everything figured out. I will never do this; it is counterproductive to both myself and to others who are reading this material: False impressions in any relationship, be it face-to-face, via online communication, or otherwise tend to ruin many things. Above all of these thingsis trust, which will play a very important topic in this essay material. By keeping this simple fact in my mind, I can assure myself (and, consequently, you can be assured) that anything in here is based on experience and that I'm not attempting to raise myself to any level above which I am. That said, I would also recommend that people take all this (and any other) material with a grain of salt. I'm not proposing that anything written here is 100% true, nor that it will work for everybody. Look out for those who claim to have it all figured out -- nobody does.
I began this work with the idea in mind that it would be useful to myself as well as to you, the reader. By expressing ideas in written form, I have the opportunity to refine and perhaps more clearly state abstract ideas (such as relationships) that would be more difficult to emphasize in a spot-on conversation. Many, including myself, have had relationships that have gone poorly. Few learn from these experiences, but those who do are changed for the better and are able to apply their newfound experience to the future.
Many people pose the question, ``How do I meet and attract a girl?'' While there is plenty of material on this subject, I will attempt to address this in some detail in this blog. Surprisingly many people, however, extend this question to, ``How do I meet, attract, and maintain a stable relationship with a girl?'' It is this question that this material will attempt to answer.
My reference for this material comes from myriad places. I have read wealths of material on the subject of maintaining relationships, and the psychology of social dynamics (from meeting people to maintaining relationships) is an area of exquisite interest for me. My experience with relationships may be somewhat lacking compared to others of greater age. That said, I do have several wonderful relationships behind me, from which I have learned much about myself, and about relationships. Reference for material regarding to meeting and attracting women in the first place comes from countless material I've read and many, many hours of actual so-called ``field work,'' which is an ongoing hobby of mine.
All this said, this material is not meant to cater to all people. Essentially every individual is in a different place in their life. Various points mentioned here will feel applicable to some and not to others.
I hope that this will be interesting and useful to people.
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